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Featured Tin Shingle: Pamela Pekerman

Pamela Pekerman is a lifestyle correspondent, spokesperson and host focusing on helping you accessorize your life! From the ring on your finger to the rug on your floor, millions of women count on her trusted opinion. Whether she's sharing the latest finds on your morning show, reporting on trends or being quoted in your favorite magazine, Pamela is doing it all with her trademark wit and approachable personality. Now, Pamela's turned her star power into a complete platform for showcasing brands she loves to her uber chic and super-connected friends. Her Acessorize parties are attended by celebrities, reality television stars and media darlings alike. And, did we mention that she's generally just the fun, upbeat type of person that we like to be around?!? You can find out more about Pamela and what she's been up to recently by visiting her profile here.

Motivation Mix Mondays: Kevin Thompson of The Wendy Williams Show

Kevin Thompson, entertainer for The Wendy Williams Show

If you’ve ever been to a live television show taping you already know this, but if you haven’t I’ll let you in on a secret:  beyond the host of the show, there is always another powerful and energizing person involved…The team member put to task to warming up and motivating the audience, keeping that audience on their feet, excited and involved in the (often lengthy) taping from start to finish.  Our PR team recently saw this phenomenon in action when we went to a taping of The Wendy Williams Show, and I say phenomenon without any hesitation.  

Wendy’s “opening act” is none other than Kevin Thompson, an entertainer that you only need to be around five minutes to begin wishing he could come to your office and start every day off with a song, dance and his contagious spirit.  True story: the executive producers at Wendy Williams didn’t actually want an opener, but Kevin took the mic once to show them what he can do, and he’s been there ever since.  Kevin is made for the stage and is an entertainer entrepreneur in his own right!  As any good entrepreneur does, we hunted him down and asked him to share what tunes help him do what he does so well, and he obliged.  Check out Kevin’s mix below and follow him on Facebook (or visit him at the Wendy Williams show)!

MOTIVATION MIX OF WENDY WILLIAM’S KEVIN THOMPSON
Kevin listens to music before he hosts any event or does the warm up for the Wendy Williams Show. It puts him in a silly mood and helps shake his nerves (he’s ALWAYS nervous).   

The Cure & The Cause (Dennis Ferrer Remix) - Fish Go Deep
Dancing to this song makes me feel like a female. It's the only song that has that affect on me.

Grove St. Party - Wacka Flocka Flame
Southern music gets me in an aggressive fun mood...just what I need before I warm up a Wendy Williams crowd.

Danza Kuduro - Don Omar & Lucenzo
Spicy, sexy & fun. My favorite song to lead line dances to at Bar/Bat Mitzvahs.

Move Your Feet - Junior Senior
My 6-year old nieces favorite song to dance to on 'Lets Dance.' I think about her every time it's on (and she's my twin sisters baby, so I feel like she's mine).

Raging Bull - Mr. Vegas & Overmars
Jamaican rhythm flows through my blood, and this song can turn an "ok" party into a crazy one.

Run This Town - Lil' Wayne
Whether I’m hosting an event at the Waldorf, Yankee Stadium or a college, I like to think of myself as the coolest guy in the room. Lil' Wayne exemplifies that to the MAX.

Love Dancing - Meritol Family
Whenever I get booked for a new event I celebrate by turning on this Dance Hall song & going crazy.

Strip - Chris Brown & Kevin McCall
This is a fun & sexual song, 2 things I like to bring to the Wendy Williams Show during my warm up bit.

Hosanna - Kirk Franklin
I grew up in the church, & Kirk Franklin was the MAN growing up.

Holla At Me - Chris Brown
This is a party song that dancers can only freestyle to, making it the perfect song to pump me up when I need it.

 

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#myshingle: Melissa Wildstein of The Matchstick Group in LA Traffic

Melissa Wildstein in LA Traffic

Tin Shingle partner and founder of The Matchstick Group, Melissa Wildstein in LA traffic, between client meetings and a fantastically inspiring lunch with fellow members Jen Dermer of Bloom Showroom and Casalinda Studio, and Tess Paras of Talk Dirty Dancing.

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Motivation Mix Monday: Kevin Thompson, the man who pumps up the Wendy Williams Show & his never fail Playlist

Kevin Thompson listens to music before he hosts any event or does the warm up for the Wendy Williams Show. It puts him in a silly mood and helps shake his nerves (he’s ALWAYS nervous).

1. The Cure & The Cause (Dennis Ferrer Remix) - Fish Go Deep
Dancing to this song makes me feel like a female. It's the only song that has that affect on me.

2. Grove St. Party - Wacka Flocka Flame
Southern music gets me in an aggressive fun mood...just what I need before I warm up a Wendy Williams crowd.

3. Danza Kuduro - Don Omar & Lucenzo
Spicy, sexy & fun. My favorite song to lead line dances to at Bar/Bat Mitzvahs.

4. Move Your Feet - Junior Senior
My 6-year old nieces favorite song to dance to on 'Lets Dance.' I think about her every time it's on (and she's my twin sisters baby, so I feel like she's mine).

5. Raging Bull - Mr. Vegas & Overmars
Jamaican rhythm flows through my blood, and this song can turn an "ok" party into a crazy one.

6. Run This Town - Lil' Wayne
Whether I’m hosting an event at the Waldorf, Yankee Stadium or a college, I like to think of myself as the coolest guy in the room. Lil' Wayne exemplifies that to the MAX.

7. Love Dancing - Meritol Family
Whenever I get booked for a new event I celebrate by turning on this Dance Hall song & going crazy.

8. Strip - Chris Brown & Kevin McCall
This is a fun & sexual song, 2 things I like to bring to the Wendy Williams Show during my warm up bit.

9. Hosanna - Kirk Franklin
I grew up in the church, & Kirk Franklin was the MAN growing up.

10. Holla At Me - Chris Brown
This is a party song that dancers can only freestyle to, making it the perfect song to pump me up when I need it.

#myshingle: Melissa Wildstein of The Matchstick Group & Tin Shingle

Super mom and super business woman, Melissa Wildstein of the business strategy agency The Matchstick Group and our partner is taking a look at a draft of her new website, while seated in her new home office...

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#myshingle: Galyna Zuy of Mineralza Makeup

You'll want to follow this makeup brand, Mineralza, and use it. Galyna Zuy is always on the cutting edge of simple but highly effect ways of beautification. Here she is, applying the makeup!

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#myshingle: Kimmie W Photography and Nomie Baby

We get so charged when you send us your #myshingle photos! This one is of Kimmie W Photography taking lifestyle shots of the Nomie Baby stroller blanket in Central Park (NYC).

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Keep Calm and Ignore Them: Maternity Leave #2

"How long are you taking maternity leave?" is the question I am asked most often now. Friends and family see me hustling my bustle before the birth of my second child comes, and this is their question, and their concern.

This article was used in the book The MomShift by Reva SethThe question of "work" has always been a sensitive topic for me. When I give friends and family the honest answer of "I don't know...maybe two weeks," I get exasperated when they gasp in horror, and I can see their wheels spinning of how they are going to talk me off the ledge and into "enjoying this time" and relaxing.

That is a fair statement and wish, and let me tell you - I do. I enjoy most of my life because of the way I have structured it. That may be hard for people who have full-time W2 jobs to understand. The life and drive of an entrepreneur, be that a service-preneur or product-preneur (I happen to be both), are vastly different from those who do not live this path. A Tin Shingle lives with uncertainty from risks taken to make a living. But within that uncertainty, other life goals can be fulfilled, including paying bills and saving for the future.

I am now finding logic in fibbing about my maternity leave, or just dodging the question by moving to another issue. It's easier than explaining where my approach to work is coming from.
Professionally, my business partners know that I am available for anything (and that's the benefit of having business partners who you trust completely). My clients know that their needs will be met, as it's my job to set up a system before my "maternity leave" that takes care of them even if I'm not able to check email for several hours.

But my friends and family...sigh. Hence the title of this post: "Ignore them and carry on." Kind of like "keep calm and carry on". The foundation of my "work" is that it gives me great happiness, as it's a limitless creative outlet that can earn income. I know my limitations. If I completely collapse, they can say "I told you so", but to avoid burnout on either end, I'm making adjustments based on the first time I went through "maternity leave", which actually lasted for 6 months because I was not emotionally ready for childcare, and tried to do everything during naps and sleep (I still work during naps and sleep, but with a huge burden lifted).

Here's my strategic plan for this second "maternity leave", and remember folks, not all Tin Shingles have paid maternity leaves, certainly not in the ways that W2 employees do with paid leaves and forced returns back into an office at a certain time each day. My day starts when I need it to (pending any member or client needs that happened overnight), but I've got to build the stockpile of bill payments. Full disclosure: I am married to a husband who works, but my aim throughout my life has been to be able to provide for myself and family independently.

Back to my strategic maternity leave plan:

  • Do It With Others. Keep a close eye on my preneuring friends who have also just had 2nd babies, and see what their lives are like.
     
  • Estimate 2 weeks for maternity leave. It used to be 6 weeks in my mind, but really, the way I feel about not working is like I'm playing on a basketball team, and we're on a roll, I'm in shape, breathing well, and the coach takes me out of the game, all of a sudden. Argh! This is not to undermine the joy of a new little person that gets replaced with this void. Just being honest here. For a Tin Shingle, maternity leave can feel like a "void" because you're not able to do what you love, and earn what you're capable of to contribute to the household. Bottom line: the end of the "maternity leave" is TBD based on the little baby, myself, and how my family and I are all doing with the new life. But really - are mothers ever not on maternity leave from their former life?
     
  • Nap time is prime time. I remember nap time being very gracious in the first few weeks. I was almost like - where's the fuss? I did not "sleep when the baby sleeps", and don't plan on it now. I can barely take naps on sunny days as it is, work or no work. Just can't do it.
     
  • Go to bed at 9pm. Mistake during my first maternity leave was I did push myself too much with stress and trying to work at night. If the baby went to sleep between 8-9pm, and I worked, and then was ready for bed myself at 11pm (like my normal self, although 10pm is best). At 11pm, the baby usually woke up hungry, and then I was hugely tired. That hour meant a night feed and sooth down. I'll be shutting down at 9pm so that I can handle the 11pm or midnight feed.
     
  • Open to different forms of childcare. In my pre-entrepreneur days, I thought the benefit of running your own business was that you could be there for your family. Little did I know how tricky this was. My mom left her W2 job in advertising to have and raise us. She did direct sales on the side (Discovery Toys, clothing, etc). She was also always "working", or carrying around binders of paperwork. Upon entering the reality of baby + business without childcare, I realized how...impossible this was. For me, at least. I was torn between reading emails and smiling and interacting with my growing baby. At six months, I gave into childcare by way of an amazing babysitter. She was my Mary Poppins. Saved me on so many levels. At one year, I enrolled my daughter in day care, aka "babyschool" because she seemed to burst with socialness when baby-friends came over. Great decision. For me, one year was great because I finished nursing, and she was ready. This little baby might start sooner, and I'm ok with that. Playing that by ear.
     
  • Respect my patience. Motherhood has injected an enormous amount of patience into my life. I had it before (though not when husband asks me for computer help at 11pm when I'm going to bed). My to-do list is very long. Remember, the to-do list is of things that are really fun for me. It's analyzing websites, seeing what's working, making new designs that may work better, tweaking content that can convert a sale, writing a new blog post that will do well in Google and reach a new audience, stitching a baby blanket, putting my inventory finally online and then promoting it. All really fun stuff! But my actual to-do list for that day or hour must be realistic, and I've grown to understand how to make that happen without being disappointed in my performance or production level.

So that's it. My strategic "maternity leave" plan. Also note: I'm able to make this decision, and that's gotta count for something.

Featured Tin Shingle, Sabina Les

Sabina Les, SL, scarf designerSabina Les is the founder and lead designer behind Sabina Les, SL. Sabina’s fashion aesthetics are combining classic and contemporary design elements. Sabina's belief is that classic design has the power to touch and bring people together worldwide, breaking through language and cultural barriers with expression of identity. The designs are recognizable for strong and distinctive graphic art elements that make for eye catching editorial and retail appeal. Sabina Les designs her creations in New York City and produces in the U.S. Sabina Les, SL has been featured in such publications as Elle, People StyleWatch, Time Out NY, NY Daily News, ABC News, and Today.

Was your last great idea the launch of your business? Three techniques for getting the creative juices flowing

When starting your new business venture, you have tons of great ideas - new ways of doing business, cool new products, fantastic and much needed new services. But after you start your business venture and you're off and running, are you still approaching your business with the same creative mind? Martin Zwilling, Founder and CEO of Startup Professionals suggests in his most recent article on Forbes.com, Entrepreneurs Need Creative Thinking After the Idea that you're not.

Albert Einstein once said that 'you can't solve a problem with the same mind that created it'. So how can you get out of your own head and get creative with your business again?

Mr. Zwillig suggests six different ways to reframe your mind in his article including changing the way you speak, think and look at things in life, setting intention and pretending to be what you want. But when you need an idea and you need it now, here are three simple ways to start brainstorming.

1. Add, multipe and divide. I went to a T Harv Ecker seminar once and yup, I bought the book, "Secrets of a Millionaire Mind". Now, before you completely write me off. I took away a very powerful idea that day that is good to apply to your business. It's the idea of:

- Adding a zero

- Multiplying by 100

- Dividing by 10

In business when we look at revenue projections, production numbers or sales, we sometimes impose limitations on ourselves. Sure, it feels feasible to say that this year you're going to do $100,000 in revenue. But what happens if you 'added a zero'? What would changing that $100,000 to $1,000,000 do to your business? What new ideas might you think of to help you reach that number? Try that exercise - or take a production number and multiply by 100 or divide the number of accounts each of your sales reps has by 10. Take the numbers that you work with in your business every day and play around with them. Add, multiple and divide and see what kinds of ideas that sparks.

2. 101 Post-Its. When we brainstorm, we can often come up with 10 new ideas pretty easily. But those ideas are usually the pretty 'safe' ones. At 10, you're just scratching the surface - and you're probably self-selecting. You don't usually get to the really hair-brained zany stuff until at least 50 ideas in. But those hair-brained zany ones are sometimes the ones that can make the biggest and most positive change in your business.

Here's what you do. Buy a pad of Post-Its (I prefer the colored ones). Start writing down ideas.  Don't stop until you've reached 101 (so number them!). Then go and post them all on a wall and start grouping them when you see a theme or a pattern. That in and of itself might spark an idea! Then look at each group and see if there's a 'big idea' admist the little ones. You might have a couple of ideas regarding your process, your customers, your products and services. Or maybe different people that you could partner with to drive your business further. Whenever you're feeling stuck. Sit down and devote some time - and a pack of Pads to solving it.

3. Take One & Pass It Around. This is one of my favorite brainstorming techniques when working with a large group of people. Here, you take a stack of note-cards. Each person gets 10 notecards. Each person then has to brainstorm 10 ideas and write each one down on a separate notecard. The notecards get shuffled and then passed back out. Each person takes their new stack of 10 notecards (with 10 ideas that are NOT their own) and writes another idea below the first. Once complete, they pass their stack to the right and the process begins again. At the end, depending on how many people you have in your group brainstorm, you'll wind up with anywhere between 50 - 100 new ideas that are all built off of each other.

So take a page out of Mr. Zwillig's book - and don't let your creativite spark go out.

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